Stop worrying about who you think they think you are!
By worrying about being perceived as someone that you're not, you'll inevitably wind up behaving as someone that you're not, and thus be perceived as someone that you're not. So why not just show up as you are, without worrying about all that stuff?
If you live in your integrity, you will not be moved by how others perceive you. They might say "you're this", and "you're that", but really it's their perception of you.
Bottom line: Speak your truth. Live your truth. honour your truth. Don't waver. Don't hesitate. Just be who you are, right now